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In fact had a conversation with a male friend about it the other day. From my point of view and in my experiences...men say they want an independent woman who has her act together financially and emotionally.
Yet here I am...divorced 6 years...I have a good job, nice house, car, money in the bank...I can take care of myself and I'm not an emotional basketcase...and can't find a good man.
The good men I know are all too busy chasing the women who make me embarrased to be a woman!!! They are emotional freakin wrecks who can't make a decision to save their lives...need a man in their life 24/7 for emotional and financial support...EXACTLY what the men I meet say they DON'T want.
Go figure.
So....don't feel alone in the way you feel...but try not to lump all women into the same category either because we aren't all that way. I'm hoping there's at least a few men out there...and ONE right one for me that actually does want a stable woman!
I think you are still single because you are posting nude pictures online and you get that excitement out just on the internet yet you are alone in your apartment/house
do you feel bad posting these private pictures of yourself online for eveyone to see?
I think you are still single because you are posting nude pictures online and you get that excitement out just on the internet yet you are alone in your apartment/house
do you feel bad posting these private pictures of yourself online for eveyone to see?
Nice
No, I absolutely don't feel bad for posting pics of myself online for everyone to see. Do you feel bad for looking at them?!?!
My photos here have nothing to do with my being single...I can't even figure out how that correlation makes sense?!
I think you are still single because you are posting nude pictures online and you get that excitement out just on the internet yet you are alone in your apartment/house
do you feel bad posting these private pictures of yourself online for eveyone to see?
LOL You keep thinking and writing like that scootermax, you are making it much easier for the rest of us. Lol Thanks for the laugh!!
In fact had a conversation with a male friend about it the other day. From my point of view and in my experiences...men say they want an independent woman who has her act together financially and emotionally.
Yet here I am...divorced 6 years...I have a good job, nice house, car, money in the bank...I can take care of myself and I'm not an emotional basketcase...and can't find a good man.
The good men I know are all too busy chasing the women who make me embarrased to be a woman!!! They are emotional freakin wrecks who can't make a decision to save their lives...need a man in their life 24/7 for emotional and financial support...EXACTLY what the men I meet say they DON'T want.
Go figure.
So....don't feel alone in the way you feel...but try not to lump all women into the same category either because we aren't all that way. I'm hoping there's at least a few men out there...and ONE right one for me that actually does want a stable woman!
Agree and I do know women like yourself as well, basically it seems to be what we indiviually find attractive. For both sexes there are a few variables, men want to feel like the protector and provider so in the case of an independent woman, they are not going to feel needed I guess, I can't for the life of me figure out why they go for the, as you say freaking wrecks, it does baffle me, that however is not my choice in a woman thankfully, nor is the the one who holds onto all her past baggage. My guess for some women would be finding a man who is confident, but only insecure enough to know his weakness and deal with it, but not too insecure to be a mama's boy or wusey. Unfortunately, by being a "Nice Guy" some of the confindence is lost by appearence. Must be just one of lifes jokes I guess.
Even when I was a teenager, I was respectful and romantic...and didn't get the girls, who always seemed to prefer the guys who treated them badly.
30+ years later I assumed women would grow out of that stage and actually appreciate a man who bought thoughtful presents, who cared, who listened, who sympathized, who treated them with respect, romance and passion. But alas, it seems little has changed. I don't want to pretend to be a thoughtless bastard, so I act like the good man I am. And for that I get ignored, taken for granted, and disrespected (never thought I'd use that term, but it fits).
I'd love to find a woman who likes being treated like a woman and not like a girl in high-school.
So, although I have other "good" friends, why is it always 1 person who gets you down?.
Now I hardly text, talk, email her, she needs to learn she cannot rely on me, yet its also me whos going to lose her. Like others have said I hoped one day they realise but it hasnt happened in 12 years so im not expecting her to change. No matter how much I/we do its never enough they always seem to get on ok in life, meals out, nights out BUT with the wrong people imo, yet they always seem to be having fun???. Are they genuinly having fun or just going out to try to cover up their shit lives but dont want to admit it/change their ways?.
Would be interesting to read an opinion from a female(s) as well as lads. Cheers
I wish she believed more in HERSELF and that she was smart and funny and attractive then she could find a better class of guy but, the changes need to start within herself.
I have always been a "nice guy" and you are absolutely right it has gotten me laid less,less girlfriends etc but, now at 26 years old I finally found a girl who isnt about all that and we really want each other for good
--fantasm
I think you are still single because you are posting nude pictures online and you get that excitement out just on the internet yet you are alone in your apartment/house
do you feel bad posting these private pictures of yourself online for eveyone to see?
I can't even believe this fucking post right now..... WOW. You are obviously extremely delusional and have ridiculous notions of the wonderful women on this site, who are free in expressing their sexuality both with and without partners. Freedom of sexual expression does not lead to a woman being socially dysfunctional in the same way your internet trolling seems to have made you.
I think you are still single because you are posting nude pictures online and you get that excitement out just on the internet yet you are alone in your apartment/house
do you feel bad posting these private pictures of yourself online for eveyone to see?
I can't even believe this fucking post right now..... WOW. You are obviously extremely delusional and have ridiculous notions of the wonderful women on this site, who are free in expressing their sexuality both with and without partners. Freedom of sexual expression does not lead to a woman being socially dysfunctional in the same way your internet trolling seems to have made you.
you go
--fantasm
Best wishes!
--fantasm
Kinda need to c it to believe it and it still feels like unreal ya know,and part if me wants to c what he looks like with someone else
ps his user name is gunitwhoop
Flashly thats ashley and his flashlight
My email address is flashly707@gmail.com im look me up
At school I found most girls never went for nice guys maybe because they wanted a bad guy for status, for the excitement or for the caveman in a time of young exploration?
I do remember being bewildered by the gorgeous girls in my year dating some proper tossers.
Interestingly many of these same guys are in dead end jobs, been in trouble with the law and generally achieving very little while the girls have settled down and had families with sensible guys in professional careers.
I always looked for the independent woman,discussed above, and it's worked perfectly for me/us.
Personally I think many people are far to superficial and materialistic in regard to potential partners which could be why so many relationships fail or never get started.
Mr FM
This is so true mate. Women think that guys who are pricks will stop being pricks just for them. The problem is, that this rarely happens. I know a girl who is friends with my wife. She is attractive, mid 20s, nice girl at heart, but she only goes for guys who have muscles and ink all over their body. She's been burnt a couple of times in the past and yet she continues to go dsown this path. Her life, her choice, but hopefully for her sakes she opens her eyes to the situation.
My solution, from my lesbian friend who heard me out once, is to stop thinking so much. It really is the key requirement/solution to most of my own problems, at least.
Just saying, the OP sounds entitled for a woman to like him solely for being "nice," but entitlement isn't really a nice thing at all. Being nice is morally correct but it takes more than just that to build attraction
I treat women like ABSOLUTE SHIT and they can't get enough of me. I am a COMPLETE STUD.
I have HAD stupid women who just wont FUCK OFF even when I PISS ALL OVER THEM WHILE THEY ARE BITCHING AT ME!
I literally PISSED all over this WOMAN while she was in my face about me CHEATING ON HER ALL THE TIME!
I am THE man!